Yes it's an overused
brand slogan and a little Cliché, but the value in these words seems to go
unheeded most of the time. We are our own biggest obstacles in everything we
do.
Every task we want
to accomplish is our task, not someone else's. We put in the effort, we decide
where to put our foot down. We choose to begin, we choose to walk away. We
create the dysfunctional fantasies that tell us we are not experienced enough
or lack the technical knowhow to move forward. It's our passion and drive that
moves beyond this level of thinking to take us
to the promise land. Even recruiting or collaborating with others
involves us. We choose who to work with or who to delegate our tasks to and the
manner in which we operate within each of these relationships.
So why do we stop
ourselves from even starting and denying ourselves invaluable real world
experience?
We tell ourselves we
need more knowledge we need more answers so I won't fail. Again, we see failure
to accomplish a task as a bad thing. No book can transmit the same quality or
quantity of information as the real world can. Still, many spend countless hours
reading guides as if they were their own instruction manuals that were written
specifically for them. Books offer great tips on how to approach new
situations. However books won't reduce the hard work you have before you. Nor
should you want them to, there is no substitute for hard work and experience
that you get from the world.
Books definitely
have a place in any journey, but ultimately we will have to choose how to
implement and use this knowledge. Book aren't going to do the work for us.
What's more is that no one book can ever fully prepare you for your unique
individual experience. Obtaining the answers for our unique path requires you
to have gone out and find the right questions to ask.
"An approximate
answer to the right question is worth far more than a precise answer to the
wrong one."
-John Tuley
Don't stop asking
questions, instead go out there, experience, and form questions based on the
real world. As soon as you do so, your questions will be based off of more than
just a few lines of text but instead, from the vast data of your mind a super computer.
Your senses, you intuitions, your past experiences will offer a much greater
platform to ask questions from than a chair with a book in your hand.
Now if you have no
clue what you're doing, great, read a book or two, but don't expect to achieve
your goals from your reading chair. The sooner you start, the sooner you get to
find the right questions to ask, and the sooner you can seek a relevant answer
from a book, someone with more experience or even yourself. It all begins with
you though. So move beyond the self-imposed limitations, and toward a better
education in you.
Practice
self-reflection every step of the way. What did you do and what would you have
done differently? Especially when it comes to the decisions you were most
unsure of. If you keep telling yourself the future is where you need to get to
in order to make the right decision, you'll never take action because an action
occurs in the present, in the now. So too lies the right question, and your
answer. So just do it already.
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